I am a creature of habit to say the
least. As much as I hate to admit it, I am OCD (or CDO – OCD in the correct
order). I am a very neat and organized person to the point that my mother calls
me Ms. Monk, after the main character Mr. Monk, the OCD detective in the
television show Monk. To this point, my family will even go into my room and
move stuff around on purpose to see if I notice and to get a rise out of me.
This ‘order’ within my life even extends outside of my home. Even when I run
errands I prefer to do them in a certain way.
Every
Sunday, my mother, sisters and I venture to Target. When we arrive at Target we
have a set route of how we walk around the store. We start by going through the
clearance aisles (got to get those deals) and then proceed through the rest of
the store hitting the different sections of the store in a specific order. I
don’t know how this predetermined route came to be, but it is something that I
naturally do, it has become second nature to me. Unbeknownst to me, this was an
event schema or ‘script’. A script is something that helps
us understand different situations in order to be better able to foresee the
various goals, behaviors, and outcomes that result from a particular situation
(Abelson 1981; Read, 1987). In other words, a script is something that
helps us understand or predict how a situation will occur (Abelson 1981; Read,
1987). As such, my route or normal routine that I take while walking through
Target is something that helps me to better organize my shopping trip that also
helps me to ensure that I won’t forget anything (i.e., so I can anticipate all
of my Target needs).
Although
I knew that I preferred to walk a certain route while in my local Target, I
never know how important this script was or how strong I was on my event
schema for this particular activity. The strength of my script only became
apparent when I was asked to deviate from my normal routine while shopping at
Target. Specifically, one day my friend needed to go to Target and asked me to
accompany her. Like the good friend I am, I obliged her without hesitation.
Once we arrived at our local Target I, as usual, started to head down the aisle
that I normally do. I hadn’t gotten further than the card section (i.e., a few
feet) before my friend grabbed my arm and said, “What the hell are you doing??”
Not registering what I did wrong I promptly remarked, “Shopping at Target. What are you doing?” Based upon the
look on her face I could tell this routine of mine was not normal for her.
After a moment of awkward facial expressions we promptly deviated from my
script and got the items she need and left.
(n=500)
**I just hope my script never becomes strong enough to do this**
**....or let a cat make my bed**
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Abelson, R. P. (1981). Psychological status of the script concept. American Psychologist, 36, 715-729.
PrankvsPrank (2012, November 23). BLACK FRIDAY EMPLOYEE PRANK. Retrieved on February 18, 2013, from http://youtu.be/vtNTgwzt7iY.
Read, S. J. (1987). Constructing causal scenarios: A knowledge structure approach to causal reasoning. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 52, 288-302.
Your post reminded me of the time I found out my girlfriend's mom has a few strong elements of OCD, too. At Thanksgiving this year, I was over at their house to join their family. When my girlfriend's mom stepped out for a smoke, her other daughter took the opportunity to "adjust" about three dozen different things around the room. When their mom came back, she about had a meltdown because of it. I'm sorry your family does that to you too!
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